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Choosing An Adoptive Family For My Baby

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Can I Choose the Adoptive Family For My Baby?

Choosing the Type of Adoption

You can discuss:

  • Open adoption

  • Semi-open adoption

  • Closed adoption

There is no single type of adoption that is right for every expectant parent.

Choosing How You Stay Connected

Depending on your adoption plan, you may discuss:

  • In-person visits

  • Phone calls

  • Video calls

  • Emails

  • Letters

  • Photos and updates

  • Other forms of communication

As your relationship with the adoptive family grows throughout the case your Adoption Professional will help you to begin to discover the types of contact you want to have with the baby and adoptive family throughout the life of the child & will also help discuss your ideas with the adoptive family. Ultimately, your attorney will provide you the option to create a Post Adoption Communication Agreement with the adoptive family to ensure that everyone has a clear documented agreement.

Creating a Hospital & Birth Plan

You can also make a plan for your hospital experience.

You may want to discuss:

  • Who you want with you during labor

  • Who you want supporting you during delivery

  • Whether you want the adoptive family at the hospital

  • When you want the adoptive family to arrive

  • Who you want to hold or spend time with your baby

  • Your preferences for communication

  • Your comfort and privacy

  • Other wishes that are important to you

Your birth may not go exactly according to plan, and that's okay. Your adoption professional can help you navigate changes along the way.

Yes, Choosing the adoptive family can be one of the most meaningful parts of creating an adoption plan. At Starr Adoption Services we encourage expectant parents to select the adoptive family for their child. Giving you the power to make the decision for deciding the adoptive family your child is adopted by.

Starr Adoption Services has home-study-approved adoptive families who are waiting to grow their families through adoption.

You can tell us what qualities you are hoping for in a family.

For example, you may be interested in:

  • A single parent

  • A married couple

  • A family with other children

  • A family without other children

  • A particular religious or spiritual background

  • Certain values or traditions

  • A specific lifestyle

  • A family who enjoys particular hobbies or activities

  • A family who lives in a particular type of community

  • A family who is comfortable with an open adoption

There may be other things that matter to you, too.

Tell us what is important to you.

We will help you explore families and consider which family may be the right fit for your adoption plan.

Want to See Some of Our Families?

View Starr Adoption Services Adoptive Families → Our SAS Families

The families shown online may not represent all families available through Starr Adoption Services. Contact us so we can learn more about what you are hoping for.

Ready to Talk?

You don't have to have everything figured out before you contact Starr Adoption Services.

If you're pregnant and considering adoption in Arizona, we're here to listen.

Call or text us 24/7 at 480-519-4393.

Your conversation is private and confidential.

No pressure. No judgment. Just someone who will listen and help you understand your options.

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Starr Adoption Services

Serving Expectant Parents Throughout Arizona

Selecting the family that you connect with is one of the greatest joys of building an adoption plan.


Questions about selecting an adoptive family?

Selecting an adoptive family is one of the single most beautiful parts of the adoption process. It is you making a decision about the family you want to join your family & have your child join theirs.

Lasting Impact

Through every step, we've focused on staying true to our values and making space for thoughtful, lasting relationships.